Sometimes the Right Thing IS the Hard Thing

By now many of you have quit or forgotten about your New Years Resolutions. Were they too hard? Are you too busy to worry about it right now? Do you want a personal chef, a kick-your-butt trainer, and/or a cookie hand slapper? Were you expecting this time, this year to somehow be different? Did you expect that the new Weight Watchers program or those shakes you bought a few months ago would motivate you enough to stick with it?

Listen to me…the definition of insanity is doing the same thing over and over and over again and expecting different results. The soul-crushing rules of fad diets, the cycle of starving yourself only to find a few days later binging on anything that isn’t tied down, the all-or-nothing do-or-die diet mentality, and the guilt of eating food that isn’t on the “good” list will whittle away at your psyche and leave you back where you started.

Going on a diet isn’t the fix. I promise. I’ve been a dietitian for over a decade and I’ve been counseling people on their diets for just as long. Diet’s don’t work. Me, creating a meal plan for you doesn’t work. Me telling you what to do DOESN’T WORK!

So what does? What works? YOU. Deep down inside of you is a spark that just needs to be fueled in order to catch fire. What will fuel you? What is your motivation? Deep down, what do you WANT from nutrition, your health, your wellbeing? I can guarantee you that your deepest motivation really isn’t weight loss. Weight loss is a side effect of an even deeper motivation. Dig down. Keep digging.

Ask yourself these questions to help:

  • What are you wanting from a healthy diet?
  • When you see yourself in 5, 10, 15 years, what do you see?
  • What about losing weight is important to you?
  • Picture yourself healthy. What does it feel like?

Once you have a picture of what you want out of your health THEN you can begin to make changes for yourself.

My motto is SMALL CHANGES LEAD TO POSITIVE RESULTS. I want you to change your eating habits to make you the healthiest individual you can be. This may be uncomfortable but sometimes the right thing is the hard thing. I also want these changes to be feasible, not soul-crushing 🙂 I want you to be mindful of what you eat and with that comes learning about what is nourishing for you! Stick with me and my blog for that information!

I don’t expect you to eat perfectly. There’s actually no such thing and those that do eat “perfectly” have what we in the healthcare biz call orthorexia. It’s a type of disordered eating and I don’t want you to be trapped by that. That’s not mindful. I want you to eat so that your body is nourished, I want you to eat so your taste buds are satisfied, and I want you to eat because you just simply like the food you are about to eat. In no particular mindful order 🙂

Look, sometimes the healthy choice isn’t always the easiest choice. BUT sometimes the right choices in life aren’t always the easiest. You get to make food choices every day. Sometimes you are going to make a nutrient-rich choice and sometimes you are going to make a choice simply because you like the food you are about to eat, regardless. All I ask is that you think about your food choices. If it is between eating carrot sticks and pretzel sticks I want you to take a step back and think about what your body needs and what will benefit your body most.

Change is hard. Change is uncomfortable. Change stretches you. Change challenges you to be different. Remember that insanity definition…doing the same thing over and over and over again expecting different results????? Well, time to be sane again. Time to do something different and get RESULTS!

****I am available for online nutrition counseling. If you or someone you know is interested in an appointment please send me a message****

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